I've just got one DS (3yrs), DC2 is due soon and I don't know if it will be a boy or girl, so I've been thinking about sibling relationships quite a bit recently.
I've noticed when DS plays on his own, or with his female friends, he's more likely to enjoy a range of different toys and ways of playing. He likes traditionally 'boys' toys such as cars, trains etc., but equally plays with unisex and 'girls' toys too.
However, when he plays with his male friends, they are much more likely to end up playing much more physically, throwing stuff around, shouting loudly, and generally being boisterous and annoying. Similarly, when we're in a larger group containing at least two girls, the girls are more likely to go off together and do something more sedate, like colouring or playing with dolls.
It's quite puzzling for my group of friends as we have all tried as much as possible to provide the children with a wide range of activities, and to avoid the whole 'pink and blue' thing.
Does this happen with siblings too? If you have two children of the same sex are they more likely to encourage each other to act stereotypically than if you have a boy and a girl? Or does having one of each just serve to highlight the differences more, resulting in each child playing the allotted role of boy or girl without exploring other possibilities?
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Does having two children of the same sex make them more or less prone to gender stereotyping?
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BedHog · 28/08/2011 15:07
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