I need some advice please. I am sat here stunned and shocked and wondering what to do.
My DD is almost 5,( she isn't at full time school) she had always been quite emotional and easily goes from being in a relatively normal happy mood to one of extreme rage. She says things like she doesn't like me, she want me to go away or she is going to live some-where else. She part seems to know what to say to hurt me and also doesn't always seem in control of her-self, she just flips.
Tonight, she had a melt down over going to bed, she raged for a while, I kept calm and let her rage for 5 mins, ignoring her before saying it was bedtime and taking her by the hand upstairs.
In her bedroon she turned on me with pure hate in her eyes and said...I don't like you Mummy, I want to get a knife and kill you until you are dead.
I am reeling with shock, I just had to leave the room and leave DH to deal with her. Where have we gone wrong? what did I do wrong? Why? How? Is it normal?
What can we do to help her? and us?
Thanks for any suggestions or help
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Advice please...almost 5 year year old saying awful things
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julesgee · 24/08/2011 11:20
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