Hi,
I babysit for a friends five year old daughter quite a lot, pretty much every couple of months I will have her for the weekend at least to give her Mum some time to herself. She is a lovely little girl but has had some difficulties in life meaning that she is very insecure. One trait I notice of this is that she always needs to know exactly what is going on later in the day, what we are having for tea, what is going on tomorrow etc.
Because of this I try to have good plans in place so I can let her know everything which is going on but I do find that it wears me out because even once we have discussed the plans about ten times she spends the whole day constantly confirming the plans for later rather than just focusing on what we are doing.
What I want to know is if anyone has any advice on how to deal with this, I feel like I'm not being consistent because for ages I try to re-affirm everything that is going on, but it literally is constant and I do find myself getting worn out and sometimes snapping at her when she is eating her lunch and talking about tomorrows dinner or what time she needs to go to bed.
Its hard because whilst she has a routine here in terms of going to bed, dinner-time etc, because I am just babysitting she is out of her normal routine so I know I should be patient but does anyone have any tips for reducing the sheer volume of questions?
Thanks,
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Kayleigh123 · 17/08/2011 09:40
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