Background bit: DS 4 1/2, DD 2 1/2. I work 12.5 hours at the weekend and DH works M-F 12 hour shifts.
I am currently at loggerheads with DH about his, in my opinion, unreasonable expectations about the behaviour of our children.
He has been on holiday this week (he did DIY all week) and we decided to spend yesterday out the house. We went to a local attraction, got lunch in a restaurant and were suppose to take the kids on a boat ride at the lake but DH stormed to the car in a toddler huff and we went home.
The list of complaints include our children being too loud...they were not shouting or screaming but DS has a habit of talking loudly when excited. They were "like animals" at the table....both kids were short on the booth
seats and sat on their knees. At one point both children put their heads down on the seat and were told to sit up which the did. DD dropped her fork twice! both ate the food that was served. They were not throwing food, climbing over us to get out the booth.
The problem we both agree on is the moaning, huffing and generally irritating behaviour that drives us both bonkers. But I have also pointed out that this is NORMAL.
This evening he told me that I am obviously not discipling them enough as they have to be told 100 + times not to jump on the couch, to sit still at the table, to speak quietly and not shout.
I say ... they are 2 and 4 get a bloody grip.
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unreasonable expectations of general behaviour in 2 1/2 and 4 1/2 year old???
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BringOnTheSunshine · 13/08/2011 20:45
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