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dolster Fri 05-Aug-11 13:19:02

My DD is nearly 16 mo - she's always been a mummy's girl but she goes through these phases of being SUCH a mummy's girl that she won't even let her dad hold her while I'm around, let alone feed her or even really play with her. My partner is a brilliant dad, he's around loads and spends lots of time with our DD, just the two of them. He adores her and they have a great time togther but when I'm around she doesn't want to know him and I think it's really beginning to upset him and make him feel redundant. Last night she screamed when he tried to give her a kiss hello and wouldn't let him hold her at all. Has anyone else had this? I just feel sorry for my partner as I think he finds it pretty devastating.

AlmaMartyr Fri 05-Aug-11 16:05:53

My DD was the other way around, huge daddy's girl. It was quite hard but she's 3 now and haven't noticed it for a long time. DS is 14 months and quite a mummy's boy but sure he'll get over it.

It's pretty normal I think so try not to worry about it too much, it can be upsetting though.

ohanotherone Fri 05-Aug-11 16:09:49

This is normal behaviour, do not worry, when she is older she will prefer him to you!

blewit Fri 05-Aug-11 20:44:08

Yes I was going to say that too - mine was like this at 16 months but at age 5 is now very much a daddy's girl. I really wouldn't worry - they are completely fickle. I think when she was 16 months it was because my dh was at work and I was doing the majority of care. As they get older they don't need so much care, and it's more taking the time to play with them - which my dh has always been much beter at than me.

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