My DS has started throwing ENORMOUS tantrums at bedtime, which are wearing me down. I've never been one for letting him CIO and CC makes me feel a bit sick - I probably need to toughen up, but I'm getting a bit desperate. We're ending up with him up till 9-10pm every day and having to walk him round the block for 30-40mins to get him to go to sleep. I know its a tantrum because he stops crying the second we leave the nursery and do something else... have I made a rod for my own back by getting him out of bed when the screaming becomes unbearable? I have let him CIO before for more than an hour and he's just kept going. How long would you let a 12mo cry hysterically for? It's not like I pick him up at the first whimper. The longest we've left him screaming in bed for was 2.5 hours (we checked on him of course to try and soothe him/calm him down/check he wasn't ill or hurt). I literally feel like I need supernanny!!
It's a bit pathetic really I know. I think my ability to be a rational, tough cookie decreases in direct relation to how little personal space/sleep/calm and quiet time me and DH get...
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tantrum at bedtime, 12mo?
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sillyworriedmama · 17/07/2011 21:04
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