Had dd2 ten days ago. Feeling sad today because feel I've lost touch with ds, 2.8. He was unsettled at bedtime and only daddy would do and got really upset when dh went out with dd1. It makes me feel really guilty-had five day antenatal admission before dd born and of course I'm pretty much glued to dd while establishing bf. He's showing no signs of jealousy, just choosing dh over me. I miss my scrummy cuddly little boy and our little routine. Will he come back to me?
Oh yes of COURSE he will!! Have a similar gap with my 2 (although they're 8 and 10 now). Once dd gets into a feeding/sleeping routine, he will still be your boy! For now, enjoy that he is letting you have time with your newborn.