My 3.6 y/o DS is a lovely, polite, sweet, sociable little boy. He loves his sister (6 months), is very affectionate and loving, loves being around people and appears to be quite bright. He language skills are excellent and he continually wants to learn about things. He loves jigsaws and will complete them quickly and will concentrate for long periods of time (30 mins +) on doing them or colouring etc.
However, in the last 2 months his behaviour both at home and nursery has deteriorated significantly. For most of the day he is lovely, but the moment you have to tell him off/speak to him to stop doing something, it escalates into a nightmare;
e.g. Asked him to stop climbing on DD's chair so he does it again, i repeat to not do it or will go on naughty step........so he runs over, punches my feet several times, I put him on naughty step where he spits at me and starts shouting very loudly in my face, he often then throws himself on the floor and will thrash around hitting things or throwing whatever is in reach.
This happens at nursery too when they asks him to stop doing something, he will either ignore or punch the feet of one of the girls. Sometimes he will start thrashing about and has had to be removed from the area as in danger of hitting one of the other kids (albeit not deliberately).
Now, nursery have pulled us aside to say that they are trying to find ways of stopping this happening and it's not a big issue at present although I fear it could become one.
The only triggars we can identify are that it seems to happen in an afternoon and specifically when he is being 'disciplined' or asked not to do something.
The naughty step has always worked in this house up until now but seems to no longer have a deterant effect.
How do we stop things spiralling out of control and why does he suddenly turn from the gorgeous loving DS into a nasty little person ?
Is this normal, it doesn't seem to be?
Any advise welcome please.
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CJMommy · 09/07/2011 18:25
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