That's the second time I've posted a thread title with swearing in it. Most unlike me but its been "one of those weeks days". Sorry.
DS is 19 months. He is very big (been in 2-3 clothes since about 15 months). Very strong. Very willful and very determined. I am just getting so downhearted with every little thing being a major battle.
Nappy changes = hell on earth. Invariably ending with him, me and the house being covered in shite. He will not lie still. He kicks his legs really hard. He screams and cries. I swear the neighbours must think I'm trying to murder him.
Getting him in or out of the car seat/buggy is a nightmare. He struggles, goes stiff as a board so I can't get him in. Accompanied by the usual screaming.
Walking anywhere is also terrible. Fine when he wants to. As soon as he's had enough he just sits on the floor and then goes ballastic if I try and carry him (easier said than done) or put him in the buggy (see point above).
Mealtimes - sometimes ok. Sometimes just comprise of him flinging food, drinks etc. around. He threw a full cup of water at dd's head this morning and she's got a huge lump and bruise
Bathtimes are terrible. Trying to wash/wipe his hands and face after meal times ? Yup, awful too.
I am covered in scratches. His nails are too sharp and desperately need cutting but he will not let me cut them. I've tried nibbling them when he's asleep. Getting him to copy his sister after she's had her done in the bath. DH and I resort to holding him down whilst the other does it but even then, we can only get a couple done before the screaming/kicking etc. becomes too much
He really can be a lovely little boy. Very smiley, cheeky and loving but I am just getting so fed up of the daily battles. He is just so determined . I feel such a twat for not being able to control a 19 month old. What the hell am I going to be like when he's older and bigger FFS ?!!
Any helps/tips please ?
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Very determined 19 month old - Everything is such a f*cking battle :-(
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Tillyscoutsmum · 08/07/2011 14:05
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