Hi Mums, I hope you don't mind a Dad posting some questions but this seems like a good place to ask them. :)
So basically our 2 y/o all of the sudden(but maybe not surprisingly) has taken to not sleeping if there is not someone with him, when we put him to bed if he is still awake he starts screaming if we leave the room. Now we tried to stay with him and then tried to leave him and see if he could deal with it himself but in his worked up state he now manages to climb out of the cot(or fall), so now we feel like we can't even leave him alone as he may hurt himself. This also happens if he wakes during the night or in the morning, the only thing that works is having somebody with him. He has never really been like this, up till now we have been very lucky.
The other thing that is proabably a factor is we now have a 2 week old second child, so far our oldest has been amazingly good about the whole thing during the daytime. He is very sweet with his new brother and shows no signs at all of jealousy but I suspect it may be playing a role in his nighttime patterns.
I don't know, there may be a few factors to be honest, he was fine for the first week or so when the baby came home but it's been quite hectic here for that time as well. We had both of the in-laws here for that week and my own mother is still here too so there has been a bot of overload for him.
Plus the change to his sleep seemed to coincide with the time his grandparents left.
And there is the added fact that the night it started it was very hot so we thought we would try a fan in his room, well that lasted for about 10 seconds as it freaked him out.
At the end of the day I'm not sure what to do, is it a case of just being patient and it will pass? What if it doesn't pass? Hopefully someone else has had a similar experience and can share some ideas.
It's at that stage now where everyone is starting to get tired and a bit grumpy, everyone except the newborn that is, he sleeps all day long. :o Not so much at night though.
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Sudden change in 2y/o's sleep that coincides with new baby.
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galaxydad · 02/07/2011 09:33
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