I have just been to see the pedi with my toddler girl who is 14 months old and found out that she has only gained 400g since she was weighed last time at 9 months. I didn't realise, but now looking back at photos even from a month ago, she was a nice chubby baby, whereas now although not thin, she has definitely lost some baby fat. The pedi made another appt. in a months time to see if she has put on more weight. He said that she needs to be drinking 1/2l of milk per day, problem is she hates milk. Thinking back I can now see what happened. My breast milk has been drying up and so I wasn't giving her enough, i'd put her to sleep thinking she is protesting only because she doesn't want to sleep, when in fact she was still hungry! I then started giving her home-made chicken stock in between meals, however it really is water, so not many calories. I feel so tremedously guilty! She must have lost weight in the past couple of months. She has been doing so well on the charts now she is way below average, i had no idea that she only weight 8,6 kg! the pedi said that she should catch up pretty quickly and that i should let her eat as much and as often as she wants. We have started doing milk shakes with fruit, egg yokls and double cream to fatten her up, but generally she still doesn't eat great amounts, the pedi said that being "starved", her body has now adjusted to eating less....:( I just can't believe that I have been straving my own child! On the plus side he said that once she starts drinking milk, she will catch up really quickly although I find it hard to believe at the moment. What are the approximate amounts that she should be eating at her age and what should I give her to fatten her up?
Thanks! Eva
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cantthinkofname · 01/07/2011 09:45
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