2009 we had a baby girl my first child.
i was so happy i always wanted to be a dad.
but at 2months old she started screaming and this would go on all day long none stop.
a week went by and me and my wife called the health worker to ask her to help us becuse she was screaming everyday all day none stop.
but we was told to deal with it as we had done for a week.
i could not beleve what we was being told so we left it for abit.
this screaming went on and on and on for a year everyday all day.
she she started to lift her head off the floor and smash it back so we had to watch her..
this was about to become the worse time of our life.as she started to sit up she was smashing herself backwords onto the floor the screaming was getting worse.
she then started to walk we did think now she was mobile it would end the probs
but no this was about to get worse.
she now smashes her head up the walls breaks our stuff in the house.kicks and hurts the animals.she pinches and pulls our hair and then says sorry.now when we go out anyplace she kicks off and dont stop.4am in the morning shes up screaming and smashing about the house.she will be 3in sep this year and we have asked for help for almost 3yrs now and nobody will help us.
our own health is now starting to go down hill and we are starting to do things like burn ourselfs on stuff and do things wrong becuse our minds are so done in now we just dont have a life anymore.they was trying to blame it on her speech but unless a new born baby can talk then i dont think so.this is stuped they will help ppl on drugs and whos drunk everyday yet wont give us at least 1days restbit.your mind can only take so much before you loose it..
i cant beleve we have spent almost 3yrs asking them to help us and nobodys done a single thing.
i dont even know how we are still going we have 2older girls that are now being left out becuse all our time is being spent on one child.we have run out of things to do now everything we come up with to make her know its wrong she finds a way out of it.
we feel they are waiting for us to kill her bebore they will help...
has anyone else has this prob before?
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a nightmare child
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raven1974 · 20/06/2011 07:05
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