Please help- we have four year old ( five next month) who has never learnt to poo on the toilet and soils many times a day. We have been asking for help since he was 3 and now have on board the school special needs teacher, classroom teacher, school nurse, educational psychologist, behavioural therapist and paediatrician, but he is still soiling always! we are told he doesn't have a medical problem ( although no one has investigated beyond sticking a finger into his bottom), he take movicol and senna daily on prescription and has a reasonably good diet. He hides the fact he's soiled ( but not always) and throws big temper tantrums sometimes when asked to get changed(but not always). He seems to find it difficult to cope with change and gets cross when asked to do something he doesn't want to, says he can't do new things and goes into a rage when whatever he's trying doesn't go as he expected.
I have yet to get feed back from the ed psych, but am worried and concerned by school saying after a year they are troubled by him and don't know how to help his low self esteem and lack of confidence. The other children know about his toileting issues, but do not tease him and educationally and physically he is achieving as you'd expect? Could it be food intolerance does anyone think? Or a physical medical problem, or is he just frustrated with not being able to go to the toilet like everyone else at the moment?
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4 year old's toileting
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Brooklyngirl · 12/06/2011 14:23
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