I have a 3yr old ds and an 8 month old ds too. Ds1 is great fun, bright and sociable. He has always been very wild and for the most part we let him be,with boundaries in relation to safety and wilful destruction etc. Our main problem which has resurfaced lately as we are not using a buggy for him anymore is in relation to road safety. He just runs across the road without waiting for us, he does seem to check but i cant always be sure. we treat it very seriously each time and both me and dp talk with him about it. He has always had a tendency to run from us, never comes back when we call him, in fact he runs away even more, putting himself in more danger. I could manage it fine before ds2 came along (although running after him was tough in late pregnancy) but obviously its much tougher now with two. We do safety training with him in relation to roads, explain what could happen etc. I am very concerned about it but am also beginning to feel a bit alienated from him because I am so anxious every time we go out. I don't want to feel like that. None of my friends seem to have this issue with their children so I was wondering if anyone out there has had similar experiences and could offer any suggestions?
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TheSecondComing ·
12/06/2011 19:23
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