My 8 month old dd refuses to be held by anyone except for me and dh, and has been like this since she was 5 months old :( It started a few weeks before she got her first two teeth so we naturally assumed it was just teeting related and it would pass, but 3 months later she is still exactly the same :( She cries if anyone else picks her up (including her grandparents - who she sees every week, and friends who we see most days (on the school run with dd1 and ds)), and often cries or turns her face away if anyone even talks to her in her pushchair. I feel like I have to make excuses for her - she's tired/teething/got a cold etc so as not to hurt everyone's feelings when she cries at them!! She is ok with children, its just adults she doesnt seem to like.
I am now starting to panic as I'm going back to work in 3 months time and I have to leave her at nursery for 2 days a week and with my parents for 1 day a week. I'm guessing the nursery will be well used to clingy babies but my mum and dad are not, and I don't think they'll cope very well if she is crying most of the time that she is with them.
I've got to start addressing this now as I dont think it is just a passing phase that she'll grow out of (as everyone keeps telling me), and I want to be able to leave her (at least with my parents) knowing that she'll be happy.
Anyone got any tips/advice on how to help her overcome her fear of grown ups?!
Many thanksxxx
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jellybelly75 · 10/06/2011 10:55
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