Hi.
I would appreciate some advice on this. My DS now aged 6 has been playing outside on/off for 2 years. We live in a fairly busy residential street with lots of kids who also play outside.
In the early days, I stayed outside and have come in more as I have seen him have more road sense and generally be more sensible.
He falls out with the other kids but nothing too serious, usual playground stuff.
However, he now loves to play football with his mates from the moment he gets in to teatime. They often play in the middle of the road. There are about 6 of them at least and I do feel he is safe enough, he does move whenever there are cars present. I do worry however. There is no park very nearby for him to play in and I feel he needs to some freedom/let off him steam after a day at school.
I worry about his safety however as he is constantly pushing to play further and further away, wants to go to very nearby shop with his mates and I wonder if its making him grow up too soon. I say no to these things and I don't let him play out as late as everyone else does. Next door however don't let their girls play out at all. I do secretly wonder whether I'm being neglectful/bad mum. I am often tied up with my dd who is only 3 months.
Neighbours have complained about the kids generally, having waterfights messing up their windows and balls hitting their property. Cars beep at the kids who aren't quick to move out of the way.
I do feel my son's social life takes over the house. I usually have the front door ajar as when I closed it he was constantly knocking to get something/toilet etc and plus I don't think its right to physically shut him out anyway but I hate having door open too.
I am considering banning him from playing out completely it is driving me so nuts. I just feel a bit uneasy about it all. I just heard a Dad really kicking off at a Mum about her kid's behaviour. Its just MUCH more rough and tumble than i remember but we live in a city.
WWYD? Am I right to be concerned? Am I being rubbish?? Please help, thanks.
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My DS playing football in the street- am I neglectful??
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cheekymonk · 12/05/2011 17:22
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