Hi all.I have no experience in this type of thing (apart from having my own two boys), and would really like to canvass MN opinions.
As I say I have 2 sons who are 4 and 6 so understand how noisy annoying and hard to handle they can be sometimes.
However my best friend's son, who I love dearly and is 3.9 displays the following behaviour:
Does not like hot food - butter for example has to be fully melted onto a crumpet before he would eat it, he won't tolerate seeing any evidence of it
Recoils from being touched, hugged, kissed except on rare occasions by his mum. Has never shown affection particularly.
Hates wearing clothes and will take them off given the slightest opportunity. Most of the time he is at home is wearing just pants and only because his mum insists.
He screams blue murder ALOT.
Throws frequent full on tantrums if he can't have what he wants, proper, lie down on the floor kicking and screaming tantrums, anywhere that he happens to be.
His mum has been told by his pre-school that he is very intelligent.
He potty trained very quickly, day and night.
He loves art and crafts things, one of the few things that hold his attention.
He is very violent, aggressive, hits out at other children and adults alot, and seems very dry angry alot of the time.
He obsesses over characters like Ben 10, despite rarely being allowed to watch it and acts out shooting and fighting scenes.
He is very hyper most of the time, runs around bouncing off walls and furniture, falls over and trips alot.
I know alot of these things are behaviours displayed by most kids at one time or another. But all of them? I think my BF has the patience of a saint, she stands her ground, talks to him calmly, disciplines using time out etc. But I feel for her, she finds it very hard.
What do you think?
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TheGoddessBlossom · 28/12/2010 21:45
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