She's coming up for 10. She's always been annoying. Or attention seeking. I'm not sure which - possibly both.
It's almost like a nervous tic, she can't help herself.
For example, if things are quiet she'll do a ridiculous fake sneeze. If I'm concentrating on something she'll come up and tickle me. If I'm talking on the phone she'll start waving around to get my attention.
I know these examples are nothing out of the ordinary - but it's constant such behaviour - she just can't help herself, and cannot empathise as to how it feels to be on the constant receiving end.
She doesn't just do it to me. It's to everyone or in front of anyone. Over Christmas we had lots of guests and one of them asked me how I put up with her , which has prompted me to discuss it here.
She's doing well at school - no behavioural problems ever flagged by the teachers - and she has lots of friends.
What should I think about this? She can't go through life annoying people.
My attempts to correct her / explain to her / punish her for such behaviour over the years only seems to result in me showing how disappointed I am in her - and I don't want that. As soon as disappointment is shown from myself or DH, we see her face fall and she's upset but still carries on and does not learn. As I say, she can't seem to help herself.
Any ideas would be appreciated.
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My daughter is annoying
Mobby · 27/12/2010 19:58
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