DD is 4 and half and today I had a copy of a report her nursery sends to her school which she starts after Christmas. Overall the report was fine, but something niggled at me. It said that DD 'gets on well with everyone and has lots of friends (all good so far) and she never falls out with anyone.'
I have noticed that, whilst being very far from a quiet and shy child, she will go out of her way to keep the peace with her friends - i.e if they get upset or cry about wanting to play something particular she will just play what they want or hand the toy over. If I ask her why she will say something about not wanting them to be upset and that she doesn't mind finding something else to play with.
I talked to her keyworker about and they agreed that she is not shy, she seems to avoid confrontation or any attempts to 'get her own way' so to speak. They are always going on about how polite and good she is but I don't want her to be a doormat or to feel that she has to always be good! How do I help her to find a balance or is this something I shouldn't be worried about?
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'She never falls out with anyone'!
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Bingtata · 07/12/2010 17:38
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