My nearly 3yo DS is very mature in some areas and I guess advanced in some (he walked early, talked early, incredibly sensitive to mummys emotions etc...) but is struggling in other areas.
I'm really hoping someone on here has some advice on how to help him cope in the areas he is struggling in.
The first is that he doesn't like groups. Whilst he is happy to play with anyone (walks up to other kids in parks etc) if there are more than 2 or 3 children present he will just sit in a corner and play by himself. If you ask him later if he had fun he says he was scared.
He has been known to burst into tears when someone asked him if he wanted a drink at a party (and it was an adult he knew really well!)
Why does he find crowds so overwhelming? As far as I'm aware, he's never had a bad experience. It's his birthday this week and he has chosen the guestlist, he says he wants a party, but keeps talking about how scared he will be. I've asked him if he would prefer to cancel it, but he doesn't want to.
The second issue is change. He's coped well with a lot (we've moved house twice in the last year, half way across the country, so lost all friends) and had a new baby sister, but recently he has started throwing insane tantrums if I move a picture, or sit on the 'wrong' chair, or leave a pillow on the 'wrong' sofa. He cried for nearly 45 minutes the today because I have flipped the calendar page from November to December and he says it makes him scared and/or 'it hurts me'.
What is going on? How can I help him cope with change better?
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Gracie123 · 01/12/2010 08:43
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