ok I will start with the proverbial I am not a troll. Have been a long time lurker and poster and remember GF, Lavender and many forms of, red rug, bat, knicker elastic etc etc.
I have for the past month or so been helping a friend out with babysitting her 9 year old ds while she has been at work and giving him his tea, helping with homework etc as her dh has been away.
Fortunately today is the last day. I haven't noticed before today but today he had his hands permanently in his pants rummaging around. Yes, I realise all perfectly normal in the privacy of your own home but not with your mums friend sat there. I tried very hard to ignore it but I felt very uncomfortable especially when the deep breathing started . He was on the sofa and I was the furthest away possible in the dining area.
After a while I just said to him in a joky way, have you got a rash or something?! Come on, please finish up your tea before it gets cold etc etc. It's not my place to make an issue of it. But later when he still hadn't stopped I blurted out, leave yourself alone, it'll drop off. I know I know, not my place and i'm not sure he heard me. Well I told his mum what I said and she said good, i'm glad you did. I said she shouldn't worry, it's normal and she said is it?? Anyway, she wasn't cross but I thought you never know who could be around when he's doing it again. Sorry I hope this doesn't sound suspect or anything it just made me feel really really uncomfortable. So glad I don't have to go again. Did I do the right thing? I had to stay in the room, there really was nowhere else I could go.
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delicate · 30/11/2010 18:47
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