So, ds is nearly 7. He has always had a bit of a tenuous grasp of reality, he likes involving himself in stories he enjoys, so, eg, his take on Harry Potter aged 5 was to 'be' Harry, telling us stories about when he was at Hogwarts and what Ron and Hermione were up to.
He still does this, only the subjects have changed: now it's MI High and Sarah Jane Adventures. I had to do a double take when I realised that some of the people he was talking about weren't actually his friends at school, but were characters in MI High. I kind of put it down to him being an only child - he has plenty of friends and interaction with other kids, and plays imaginatively, but maybe lives in his head a little because it's quieter at home? I don't know.
I never worried about this too much, until today, when one of our relatives commented on how unusual he is. And he has started lying with intent, just to add to the usual mix of spies around every corner and aliens in the bathroom.
It's getting harder to get a proper, straight answer to ordinary questions. Is it something that sounds familiar? His friends join in with his games, but we're getting more frustrated than we used to, and I worry that they will, as well, at some point.
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Can we talk about lying and fantasising and telling stories in c 6/7 yr olds?
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Unprune · 24/11/2010 17:32
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