DD was mostly a pretty good eater from when she was weaned (apart from some problems when confronted with lumpy food to start with but she has the hang of that now!) and would try quite a wide range of things. She has always particularly liked fruit. She has eaten well both at nursery and at home.
However in the last month or so she has become very fussy and refuses many things she has happily eaten previously. Mostly she refuses savoury type foods. The only things DP and I have been able to get her to eat this weekend have been smoked salmon (nicked off my plate and then also gobbled down when offered to her at a meal separately), bread, tuna and mashed potato, soya yogurt and a variety of fruit pots. Everything else has been spat out or refused, accompanied by tears even though we never force her to eat anything. She will eat organic snack bars like carrot bars.
She is very definite when she does not want something and says 'bye' or 'no more' so there is no room for misinterpretation!
This has been going on pretty much since she started cutting her pre-molars, these are now nearly fully through but she has now picked up a cold so I wonder if she is just not hungry as she has been feeling under the weather what with her teeth and now the sniffles.
I am also worried I have made the situation worse as I offered her a mix of courgette, carrot and tuna (which she usually loves) for lunch yesterday and checked the temperature to make sure it wasn't too hot. She opened her mouth to take the spoon but once the food went in she started to cry as if it was too hot. I double checked and it didn't seem too hot to me but who knows. Anyway this seems to have put her off even more.
I am just getting really concerned, I don't want to turn food into a battle and try to make mealtimes fun but I am worried she just isn't getting the nutrients that she needs and don't want to pass on my stress/worry to her.
Any advice gratefully received.
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Advice needed - 18m DD refusing food
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littleduck · 07/11/2010 12:48
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