Hello everyone
I am at my absolute wits end this morning.
My son who turned 3 in August started nursery about 5 weeks ago and he has NEVER wanted to go. I am a sahm and he has always been with me, I have never needed childcare really as I dont work, dont go out that often and when i do he is with his dad anyway.
The first few sessions I stayed with him and he was ok wth that and seemed to enjoy himself but always kept one eye on me. Eventually when he was distracted I would go and the staff said he had been just fine.
However the past few times have been a nightmare to the point I cant get him out the house to go. He wont get dressed so I have to force the clothes on which he rapidly tears off, he screams until he is sick.I have tried just carrying him but its just impossible as he is going off on one so bad I dont have the strength to get him there physically as I dont drive.
He has now missed 2 sessions as I have not been able to get him there because of the tantrum. He is only there 2 mornings a week and I thougth it would be good for him.
I am at a complete loss as to what to do. Dh took him one day last week and he went ok for him he screamed and had to be peeled off dh but nursery rang later to say he was ok.
I am sat here in tears while he has cried himself to sleep on the floor. Please please can some one help me. ANy advice really appreciated. So may friends have just said i am being soft and should just drag him but its not as easy as that when he is like this.
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3 year old hates nursery, please help me
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Missymilly · 14/09/2010 09:47
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