Hi, not created my own thread before!
I have decided to cash in a birthday present from about 3 years ago. I'm going away for one night to a health spa.
Anyway. Question is, how do I approach telling my DD, who is 2 years 4 months old, that I'm going away? I'm going next tuesday night and want to start telling her tomorrow. I feel that nights can't get much worse when she does wake up, but paranoia says that I'll be driving back from the health spa at 1,2,3 or 4 am to resettle her back in to bed.
She gets stars if she sleeps through the night and gets a prize when she has 5. I've also said on 2 occasions she can have a malteser in the morning if she sleeps through, generally on a friday or saturday night and still she'll not sleep through. Bribary etc doesn't seem to work
I feel slightly sick at the thought of leaving my DH with my very tricky DD (I also have a DS 3years 10 months). She will not accept DH at all for cuddles, reassurance, anything, this is during the day and at night. I've never been away before and hope that out of sight will be out of mind. DH has, let's say, less patience than me.
She wakes up most nights and can take up to 2 hours to re-settle. Have tried on various occasions to let her cry but meltdown happens and she will still sometimes cry for the full 2 hours even if left. Leaving her is generally a no no.
On the plus side, she is fabulous and lights up a room with her comedic behaviour!!
Thank you
Emma
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How do I tell Very tricky DD toddler I'm going away for 1 night
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SigningMum1 · 11/08/2010 11:52
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