please adjudicate...(79 Posts)
between me and DP! We've got a while to go but don't seem to be on the same page at all name-wise! Which of our lists would you discount and why? (Feel free to be honest - don't want to saddle child with name I think is amazing but everyone else it ever meets thinks is ridiculous)
Saoirse (pronounced Seer-sha)
Megan (I love this but DP HATES it with a passion!Says she'd be called Smegan?!!)
Genevieve (Eve for short)
sorry, with the exception of Ali I prefer your DPs list for girls - prefer Joseph for a boy though. Megan is the only girls name fro your list that I like.
badtime My favourite from the girls would be Emma, so Emma or Joe it is then
Saoirse and Seren are lovely but do you have any Irish or Welsh connection? Not that you HAVE to, but I can see why your DH would be a bit if you haven't.
I like Joseph very much for a boy.
The rest of your girls names are a bit much for my tastes, prefer your DH's list - again with the exception of Ali!
You could mark each others names out of ten and then use the names with the highest scores as a shortlist. Maybe keep the 3 highest scoring names from each others list.
Emma - Dated
Ali - People would assume it was short for Alison, also dated
Leah - v chavy where I live
Amy - Dated
Lee (boy) - Too much potential for teasing (wee, pee etc).
Saoirse (pronounced Seer-sha)- child would have to spend time correcting
Seren - Nice
Megan Awful and very dated imo
Mercedes Ruined by car association
Genevieve (Eve for short) Lovely my favourite from both lists, great nicknames
Vivi, Evie, Eve, Genna
Your dp has made a good list - all fine.
I don't like your list, with the exception of Natalia and Joseph.
Emma- A pretty name though dated
Ali- Reminds me of Ali G not a fan sorry
Leah- I love this name
Amy- Too common a bit boring
Lee (boy)- Husbands Name- bit boring
Saoirse -Not particulalry Keen
Seren- Very pretty lovely meaning
Megan- (My babys name and its gorgeous- never been called Smegan
Natalia- I like this a lot
Mercedes- Sorry really really dislike
Genevieve (Eve for short) Pretty and unusual
Joseph- I like but dont love this name
thanks for the comments so far - maybe dp has a point about some of my names then!
I should have added, as far as I'm concerned, Joseph is non-negotiable (after my late dad, easy to shorten, I think it's lovely), DP is not convinced but it's one I just won't be budged on. However, I do also like Aidan, Aaron and Owen.
I love Genevieve because of all the way you can shorten it, but DP thinks why give a child one name and call it another. (Hence the 'Ali' on his list - which i really really dislike).
He also likes Callie, a combination of both our mothers names, but I'm not keen.
We both like Ruby - but neither of us loves it, iykwim
ps - I have strong Irish and Spanish family connections! Hence some of my choices.
Emma- Don't really like it
Leah- I quite like this
Amy- too common for me
Lee (boy)- not keen
Saoirse - Not that keen
Seren- Love this!!
Megan- I really like Megan
Mercedes- Its ok but I instantly think of the car. Its like calling a baby Vauxhall for me
Genevieve (Eve for short) My favourite out of all the names
Joseph- I do quite like this.
Your list is best, especially Genevieve.
DP's list: I think they are all fabulous. I disagree with people think some of them are dated. I guess Ali is my least favourite, but i don't even dislike that one (I like Callie better though). My order would be Leah, Emma, Amy, Ali.
Your list: I think they are all beautiful except I don't really like Natalia (sounds really Russian, I prefer Natalie but hate the short form Nat). And I don't really like Mercedes. I love all your other names though.
Joseph is great for a boy.
I agree that why name your child something if you plan to call him/her something else...just name them the name you want to call them.
I like Lee/Leah, both on your DP's list, sorry!
I prefer your DPs list for girls (with the exception of Ali) but my favourite names are actually Genevieve and Joseph which are both yours ! What about Leo for a boy (similar to Lee, but much more classic and less dated). Really love Genevieve.
Your DP's list is boring. Yours is more interesting. Some people think boring is a benefit.
I detest both the boys' names (although your reason is excellent) so I really really hope you have a girl
Emma - classic, but will be one of many in class
Ali - is a nickname. If not Alison, how about Alisha/Alicia?
Leah - i like this (Lee-ah not Ley-ah though)
Amy - again, safe but one of many. Ps does your dp watch Hollyoaks??
Lee (boy) - I've never met one who wasn't an arrogant tosser tbh
Saoirse (pronounced Seer-sha) - will spend her life being called Sauce
Seren - increasingly popular, personally i think it's a bit foreshortened and prefer Serena
Megan (I love this but DP HATES it with a passion!Says she'd be called Smegan?!!) - dated
Natalia - trying too hard to be exotic. Natalie or Natasha?
Mercedes - Benz
Genevieve (Eve for short) - to go with the 72 bazillion other Eve derivatives of the last few years
Joseph - like this
I prefer your list. All OK though imo except Lee (just not very keen) Ali (unless short for Alison, or Alastair for a boy) and Mercedes (beautiful, but it really is a car's name now, sadly).
Favourites in themselves are Saoirse, Natalia and Genevieve - so all from your list!
If you have Jewish (Leah) Irish (Saoirse, Genevieve), Welsh (Seren, Megan) or Russian (Natalia) connections then I'd be inclined to pick the name with the appropriate cultural connections.
I think your names are more interesting. Although from your DP's list I think Emma is a sweet, classic name as is Leah. Ali I don't like - it sounds like a nn or a boys name.
Joseph is lovely, and I love your reasons for calling a child this.
Jodie is sweet for a girl
I like your dp's list and actually go against the grain because I love Ali. I know two Alexandra's who both go by Ali.
From your list, I like Genevieve, but wouldn't shorten to Eve, and think Seren is beautiful.
oooh i didn't realise Genevieve was Irish - I loved it anyway but this makes it even more apt!
I actually prefer Natalie to Natalia but I can't stand it when people miss out the T and pronounce it "Naaah...alie", but you sort of have to pronounce the T in Natalia, if that makes sense?? But doesn't go with surname, admittedly.
Jodie was one of DP's suggestions!! I could be convinced on this...(only having one child so would never be in the situation of having a Joe and a Jodie).
Didn't consider Ali as a shortening of Alicia. Think it's quite pretty...hmm...at least middle name potential....
I'm getting that Mercedes is definately a no-no (sadly!). What do you think of Maya (pro. M-eye-a)? Or does it just sound like someone is questioning their surname (ie. Am I a ...Smith eg.)
I don't like Ali or Leah. Amy is a bit [meh]. Emma is nice/classic. I don't like Lee at all.
Don't really like Saoirse (unless you are Irish) because of the difficult spelling or Genevieve and hate Mercedes. Megan & Natalia are fine.
Seren, I love (but I am biased ) and I love Joseph too (completely unbiased)
Emma - nice name but I know so very many of them that it would put me off
Ali - like
Leah - like
Amy - ok but not so exciting
Lee (boy) - fine but not thrilling
Saoirse (pronounced Seer-sha) - great name - does it still have political implications? I guess in the past it would have been chosen for its meaning IYKWIM which is great if you are happy with that.
Seren - nice but as per another thread v. popular in Wales
Megan (I love this but DP HATES it with a passion!Says she'd be called Smegan?!!) - nice but also v. heavily used if you're in Wales
Natalia - don't like so much
Mercedes - great if you're Spanish, tricky otherwise
Genevieve (Eve for short) - like
Joseph - like
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