My DH has had the names for our children picked out pretty much since our second date. (I know, I know, a bit freaky... but I love him...)
The names are sweet and OK I guess but I feel as though I have no say in the matter. I'd REALLY like to name our PFB son after my Dad - he has been such an inspiration and help to us, he's been so ill lately with a suspected brain tumour and I love him so much that I'd like to honour him in this way. I know that he was devastated when I took DH's surname - as his only daughter that means the family name "dies" with me - so I thought calling our son "Rory" (Dad's name is Roy) would be a beautiful gesture.
HOWEVER dh has his heart set on his best friend's name, James, as they promised each other when they were kids that they'd call their children after one another. DH's best friend has not stuck to his side of the deal - his DS is called Jesse, and DH is not - but DH is insistent.
HOW on earth do I convince him to consider other options? James is a lovely name, and there's nothing wrong with it but I feel that honouring my dad would be the right thing to do...
Please help! Your tactful advice will be much appreciated!
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KittyCat8 · 31/10/2008 11:40
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Pamina ·
31/10/2008 12:15
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