The names we loved for DS1 just didn't seem right when he finally arrived, so I'd wait until he comes if I were you. We finally agreed on first names, but were still arguing about middle names on our way to register the birth! I think you have two weeks anyway so once you get used to him you might think differently.
I'm with Ewe, how can he possibly deny you this request after hours of pain and suffering! Remember to scream extra loud, well you prolly will anyway, and as he is gazing into his new son's eyes, introduce him to little Fraser
Dh didn't like any of the names i suggested for both DDs. They were both born without names, and i spent the night in the maternity staring at their faces and suddenly their names just came to my mind and stuck. Dh didn;t even know.
When he came to visit in the morning, i said "say hello to you daddy DD1" (well, her name isn;t DD1, although now i think of it..DeeDeeOne?... )...anyway, he didn't like it at first, but now absolutely loves it, she couldn't be anything else.
Same scenario with DD2, he didn't like the name i chose because it reminded him of an ex, but since he didn't suggest anything else, then i gave him the baby to hold and said "Here's DD2".
Now he adores both their names.
AFter pg and birth, i think i am entitled to chose their names.