Jay or Asher?

[Boundless]

Thank you

[Hushabyelullaby]

I actually quite like both. If you want a more uncommon name then i'd go for Asher.

[Sophronia]

Asher. Jay feels a bit insubstantial.

[OneSecondAfter]

Asher.

[Rockaby]

Another vote for Asher!

I've never really liked Jay and can imagine it sounding horrible in my accent some accents.

[PointlessUsername]

Asher

[Sugarpiehoneyeye]

Definitely Asher.

[Kazzawazza69]

Asher

[Sapphireshadow]

Asher

[WindwardCircle]

I love the name Asher. I know two adult Jays and with with both of them it's a nn for longer J names, so to me it doesn't feel like a name in it's own right.

[n0ne]

If I had to pick one, Asher, but neither are
my bag, sorry.

[ThatsNumberWanggg]

Asher is much nicer. I'd presume that Jay was just an initial for something if I heard it. Or short for Jason.

[NuffSaidSam]

Asher.

Jay is nice as nn for something else, but not as a name on it's own.

[ScarletSienna]

I know a teenager called Jay which isn't short for anything and I like it but prefer Asher for reasons people have mentioned above.

[TheUnicorns]

Asher is a gorgeous name, have always loved it!

[DramaAlpaca]

Of the two, Asher.

I think of Jay as more of a nickname.

[KoalaDownUnder]

Asher, by default.

[SleepFreeZone]

Asher. Love it 👍

[Yika]

I like both but love Asher.

[Mumzypopz]

Jay is short for Jason surely? Asher is horrible

[ArriettyClock1]

Both are horrid.

[Izzyathome]

Not keen on Jay, as said above, to me it's the nn for Jason. Asher reminds me of 'brimful of asha' and I dislike the nn Ash. Too reminiscent of the awful name Ashley.
How about Archer?

[SwedishEdith]

Like them both.

Archer? Why??

[Xmasfairy86]

Boy or girl?
I know a Jay, his name is Jay - not a nn. Never really see it as a nn but can see how others can

[serephine16]

Asher 😀