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ShowMeTheWayHome · 10/01/2017 22:11

Choose a name you 'really like' even though it's very popular at the moment and risk there being 2/3 others in the child's class with the same name

Or,

Choose a name you just 'like' that isn't at all popular at the moment?

Thanks x

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Raines100 · 10/01/2017 22:13

I chose the name I loved.

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strawberrypenguin · 10/01/2017 22:14

Choose the name you really like. DS1 has a name that's pretty much always top 10 and there isn't another in his class. There is in his year but DS goes by a shortened form and the other doesn't.

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Staranise123 · 10/01/2017 22:47

I'd probably continue to find a name I really loved. And that would probably be a less common name as I seem to love unusual names Smile Also, it would be great if the name can identify (without having to add surname initials or other adjectives)

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DramaAlpaca · 10/01/2017 22:51

I'd go for the name I really liked.

One of my DC has a name that's been in the top 10 forever and I still love it.

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PointlessUsername · 10/01/2017 22:52

The one you really like.

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shaggedthruahedgebackwards · 10/01/2017 22:56

I'd pick the name I liked best

Just because it's top 10 doesn't necessarily mean there will be others with the same name in your DC's school class

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MarmiteDoesYouGood · 10/01/2017 23:05

I'd choose the name I really liked. The number one name (Oliver) is only given to 1 in 50 boys each year, so being 1 out of 2 or 3 in a class is statistically very unlikely. And that's the number one name. The number 10 name (Oscar) was only given to 1 in every 88 boys.

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BackforGood · 10/01/2017 23:11

Decide if you can cope with 'shortenings' ( or sometimes even 'lengthenings!). If there are 3 Daniels in the class, one will be Dan, one Danny and one Daniel - it won't be you that decides.
Now, I'd take that into account anyway when choosing a name, but you get plent on these threads who want to call their child 'Bartholemew' but cant stand 'Bart'

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Sophronia · 10/01/2017 23:15

The one that I liked best

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Abetes · 10/01/2017 23:17

Go for the one you love.

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RNBrie · 10/01/2017 23:17

Choose the name you like.

Dd1 has a top three name. No others in her class.

Dd2 has a name nowhere near the top 100. There are two of them in her class.

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ShowMeTheWayHome · 11/01/2017 07:58

Thank you, that's a great help Smile

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wundringnow · 11/01/2017 08:32

Name you like!

You can never predict what the hot name will be in your particular demographic and school when your child starts school.

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MiniMaxi · 11/01/2017 08:58

Choose name I really like

Who cares about popularity! In my primary school class there were three Laura's and two Rosie's. Don't think any of them hated their name!

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Cosmicglitterpug · 11/01/2017 09:11

Always the name you love.

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LemonBreeland · 11/01/2017 09:15

I accidentally picked a top 5 name for DD. There are no others in her year, 2 class intake. The other name she nearly had was outside the top 50 an she has friend with that name, so you just can't predict really

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WildCherryBlossom · 11/01/2017 09:34

I had always loved the name Isabelle and imagined I would probably use it if I ever had a daughter. But by the time I got pregnant there were quite a lot of them around so I put it on the 'middle name list' and spent time thinking about other names. Late in pregnancy another name occurred to me. Absolutely beautiful. I'm so glad I chose that name for her. I still love the name Isabelle but there are at least two in each of my children's school years.

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ASqueakingInTheShrubbery · 11/01/2017 10:02

Name you love. You can't predict who's going to be in her class at school. DD has a relatively unusual name, about number 300-odd the year she was born. A week after she was born there was another DD-name in the local paper's birth announcements and another one at a baby group we went to.

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GreenTureen · 11/01/2017 12:56

I have an Oliver. He's the only one in his school of 200...even the most popular baby names aren't really that common on a population basis. I only know one other Oliver who is in his 40's.

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Ilovewillow · 11/01/2017 13:03

Go with the name you love! My daughter is in yr 4 with a three class intake (90 children), and even though many of the children have popular names there are only:
3 girls with one name
2 girls with a other
2 boys with the same name

You can always look at it as you are not alone in your good taste in names!

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ClaryIsTheBest · 12/01/2017 07:52

Name you love :)

Congrats :)

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AuntieStella · 12/01/2017 07:57

Choose the name you love.

Because sod's law will intervene if you discard one name for being "too popular" as then you will find 2 or 3 of you unusual name in your class (and that's way more noticeable)

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Staranise123 · 12/01/2017 09:17

Maybe also think about what your child might prefer?

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CwtchMawr · 12/01/2017 09:27

I chose the name I liked. Was no 1 the year DD was born, she's never been in nursery, preschool or school with another!

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Chosenbyyou · 12/01/2017 20:51

I would go for a name I really like that I think suits a child and an adult. Not sure why people are bothered about how many in a class? Life extends much further than a school classroom lol xx

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