Hi all!
My sister and I both happen to love the same name for a baby boy. It's not one I'd thought about as never expected to get pregnant, but when she mentioned it, I loved it. She had a little girl so never used it. When I mentioned I liked the name, I asked if she would prefer us not to consider the name or any other names she loved. She said if we liked it, we could use it.
It has become our favourite name and last night I rather excitedly told her. Well, for want of a better phrase, the s**t hit the fan. She went nuts accused me of being selfish and horrible and name stealing. This went on for ages. I asked her why if she loved it so much did she say we could use it? Her reasoning, she didn't think we would.
Am I in the wrong here? I presumed by her saying we could use it, she meant it.
I find out the gender at scan in 3 weeks and she said she hopes the baby is a girl so we can't use it.
She said she won't talk to me about baby anymore and I should just inform her when it's born.
So do I give up the one name I love if we have a boy to placate her or keep and have her not talk to me.
With all the hormones at the moment, this has really upset me.
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Titchypanda · 16/08/2016 09:56
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