I made friends with a lady who was about the same stage of pregnancy as me about 6 months ago. We've never discussed name preferences. She had her baby early (but full term, baby has come home), and she has named her baby our first choice girl's name.
We don't know what we're having so there might be no problem if we have a boy, but if we were to have a daughter, can I still use my first choice name, the same name as her daughter? We have one other possibility for a girl's name (DH is very fussy about girl's names), so if the baby suited the other name we could use that. If she didn't though, I'd still want to use my first choice, I'm 36 weeks and I don't want to start thinking of alternatives at this stage when I've had my heart set on it for months.
Should I tell my friend now that I might end up using the same name, or wait until our baby arrives and the name is settled and then say? (Will be a non-issue if the baby is a boy.) I don't want to upset my friend, but don't want to settle for another name if the first choice name works. Any advice appreciated - sorry for he long post! By the way, the name isn't anything out of the ordinary in terms of popularity, I think it's in the top 20 for baby girls.
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Friend has used our first choice girl's name - WWYD?
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Braywatch · 18/02/2016 10:11
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