I have never thought a name 'belonged' to anyone else, and gave DS the same name as a good friend's little boy as we had both liked it for years and they just happened to be born within 2 months of each other (they live abroad though). I didn't ask if she would be okay with it or give it a second thought, but it was a traditional well-known name so different to my current dilemma.
If this one is a girl, there are lots of names we like, but none we LOVE like we did last time with DS, and I know it would grow on us but I ideally want one that just feels perfect. I've been thinking of a name for a little while which is fairly unusual, for the sake of example as unusual as Blossom (I don't want to give the real name in case of outing myself!) and I have a local mum friend who's daughter is called it, her and DS go to nursery together.
Although I've since seen it in the name books and on here, I did discover it through her, and she is such a lovely LO that I think it really brought the name to life for me. Being honest, I would totally be 'copying' it as I don't think I would have noticed it if I didn't know her. However no other name seems to hold a torch to this one - I really love it far more than any others on our list.
Would it be inappropriate to ask said friend if she would mind me using it if we decided it was the one? Would do so via message to not put her on the spot, or is it a bit of a no-no as it's fairly unusual and there are no other 'Blossom's' in our extended circles?
What do people think? Thanks
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samjammy · 24/10/2015 17:15
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