We can’t decide to go for the slightly more conventional version (Ellen), or the more unconventional Elyn/Ellyn. All would have a similar pronunciation. We quite like the idea of the more alternative spelling and both Elyn or Ellyn are (albeit little used…) names in their own right, rather than made-up variants. However, we suspect that a lot of people have never heard of the variant names of Elyn or Ellyn, so we wonder if we are at risk of making DD’s life that tiny bit harder if we opt for the less conventional. We are not that bothered about what others think, but would be really annoyed with ourselves if we had saddled our daughter to any extent!
Key concerns on the more unusual spellings would be:
- Will Elyn/Ellyn be recognised as a variant name rather than a variant spelling, or is everyone likely to think we’ve made it up/tried to be different or quirky?
- Are we stitching up DD if we opt for the alternatives? Always having to correct spelling or pronunciation, or to field comment on her name when first introduced: 'oh that's pretty, where are your parents from…?’ etc?
- Will DD be judged in the future as one of those babies from 2015's crop of individualised names, with extra letters and unusual spellings the current thing?
- Are we inviting Lyn (not that keen) as a NN?
- Are we just better off going with what we see as the classic, understated root name of Ellen?
Decision required today, as we’ve left it too long already. Help!