So we've whittled it down and have two front runners....thoughts?
Valentina Rae (or Ray) (DH likes Rae although we have no real connection to it, he hasn't really had much to do with naming the other two so nice for him to have an input.)
Valentina Alice (It's a Great Grandmother's name, doesn't go particularly well but fills the middle name gap. My Mother was very close to her Granny Alice although I never met her, she was long gone when I was born, apparently I was supposed to be called Alice after her though!)
The other two girls have middle names that honour various family members, husband's Mother who died when he was about 11 and family name from my side. That's why I feel she needs a middle name too, just that we've done all of the recognition required!
Valentina Rae is cool, but will it be cool in twenty years?? I do like it at the moment though, it's definitely edging towards the front, with your votes and in real life too.
I'm coming over as really domineering, I'm not! DH is just so so laid back he never really states much of a preference (apart from if it's landrovers or computers), so when he actually does say "I like...." it's quite nice, as opposed to the usual "Hmmmmm" or "That's alright"!