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Boys names - there's always a problem with our faves!

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madmayday · 18/07/2014 20:09

DC3 due soon and has boy parts! We are bloody fussy and can't agree on much. The few names we do like seem to throw up problems! Bloody frustrating. Aaaargh!!! Grin

DS1 is Daniel Patrick (nickname Dan)
DD is Annabel Lily (nickname Bel)

Our surname is one syllable long and starts with 'S'. And we would like something that can be either formal or shortened like the other kids' names!

Here are the very few names we like and the reason's we they are not suitable...

Matthew/Matt We both like this as a full name, but I had a relative of the same name who sadly died recently at a young age. So it is a slightly worrying name choice (superstitious) and more importantly, I worry it would be disrespectful to his surviving relatives...

Samuel/Sam We both love Sam but not only is it the name of two of my relatives (real copycat territory here) but it also rhymes with Daniel somewhat! Is it a little silly to have brothers named Daniel and Samuel?

Oliver/Olly DP's niece's name is Olivia. The cousin's will see each other regularly and having virtually the same name could cause a fair bit of confusion!

Benjamin/Ben My favourite! But I don't know why I'm even writing this as DP "hated Ben at school" and refuses point blank to even consider it. Sad

Gabriel/Gabe DP quite likes but is afraid that his metrosexual gene will rub off on DS2 and the poor kid will be known as "Gay" throughout school! I'm not 100% on this. Grin

Dominic/Dom DP really likes but again, we both know an odious human with the name. Off-putting! I'm not 100% either.

Jacob/Jake We both love Jake but are not really there with Jacob. But he needs to have a longer version!



Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease help us! We are rubbish!!! If anyone has a winning alternative we will love you forever!!! Grin

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cece · 18/07/2014 20:12

Jonathan/Jonny

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madmayday · 18/07/2014 20:16

I like that cece but DP not keen. He vetos nearly everything!

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Bowlersarm · 18/07/2014 20:17

William / Will
Alexander / Alex
Nicholas/Nick or Nico
Tobias/Toby
Sebastian/Seb or Bastian
Joseph/Joe

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Bowlersarm · 18/07/2014 20:19

Ooh or

Robert/Robbie or Rob
Nathaniel/Nate
Zachary/Zak

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Hedgehog1977 · 18/07/2014 20:21

Please use Gabriel! We have the same problem, all of our name choices have a small problem. We already have a Gabriel (Gabe) in the family so I wish we could use it!

Hx

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weatherall · 18/07/2014 20:25

Sebastian/seb
Christian/chris
Michael/mike/mick
Nicholas/nick
Alexander/Alex/al/ally
Alistair/as above
Stanley/stan
Bradley/brad
Victor/vic
Robert/rob/robbie/robin/bob/bobbie
Raymond/ray
Richard/rick/Ricky/rich/Richie
Jonathan/jon
Jacob/jake
Joseph/joe
James/jim/jimmy/Jamie
Finlay/fin
Charles/Charlie
Cameron/cam/Ron
Andrew/Andy/drew
Sidney/Sid
Stephen/Steve
Philip/phil
Patrick/pat/paddy/rick
Douglas/doug/dougie
Marcus/mark
Louis/Louie
Gregory/Greg
Graham/grey
Donald/don

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WhenIGrowUpIWantToBeAPenguin · 18/07/2014 20:28

Raphael / Raph(ie)

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callipygian00 · 18/07/2014 20:31

Sebastian is gorgeous. I wouldn't worry too much about horrid people having the same name - as soon as you decide on a name for your son, you'll link the name to your lovely little bundle of joy rather than that rotten person!

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madmayday · 18/07/2014 20:34

Wow guys - these are great! Thank you!!! I particularly like Alexander... can't wait to run these past DP when he gets in! Also, which of the names on the list do you think we could get away with if it came down to it? Wink

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tortoisesarefab · 18/07/2014 20:36

Issac
Aaron
Joseph
Michael
Ethan

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Angelto5 · 18/07/2014 20:40

Alexander is a great name.but my dh preferred xander. Also Michael is classic with a few nn.
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Nathan/Nate
Joseph/Joey
Jason/jace/jay

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Bettyhen · 18/07/2014 20:40

Edward/Ed
Frederick/Fred
Roderick/Rod
Maximus/max
Christopher/Chris
Peter/Pete

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Bowlersarm · 18/07/2014 20:41

Or Joseph/Jos or Joss

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Bowlersarm · 18/07/2014 20:42

Christopher / Kit

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OublietteBravo · 18/07/2014 20:45

Christopher/Kit
Isaac/Zac
Jonathan/Jonty
Leonard/Leo
Simon/Si
Stephen/Steve
Thomas/Tom

(Or if you're feeling adventurous, the Sam could be a shortened version of Isambard)

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CitronVert · 18/07/2014 20:45

Would second Christopher/Kit.

Dan, Bel and Kit.

Lovely.

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myotherusernameisbetter · 18/07/2014 20:46

Frederick/Freddie/Fred
Matthew/Matty/Mat
Jonah/Joe
Roderick/Roddy
Edgar/Ed/Ted
Harrison/Harry

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myotherusernameisbetter · 18/07/2014 20:47

Lucas/Luc

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Baddderz · 18/07/2014 20:51

Thomas/Tom
Tobias/Toby
Elijah/Eli
Alexander/xander/Alex
Joshua/josh
Timothy/Tim
Edward/ned
Frederick/Freddie

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catsofa · 18/07/2014 20:55

Does Olivia happen to get called Livvy? Then maybe they could be Olly and Livvy?

Do you definitely need to keep odious Dominic in your lives? Dump him and meet some nicer Dominics, there are loads of them!

Samuel sounds more problematic to me because of "Our surname is one syllable long and starts with 'S'." Doesn't this mean he would end up being called Sam Simms or Sam Sipps or something? Ouch. Ooh, or Sam Singh, like the mobile phones? Sounds fine IMO with brother Daniel though.

Matthew also, with the reasons you've given, you really can't use.

Jacob is nice!

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EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 18/07/2014 21:01

I know several Gabriels and none of them get called gay.

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madmayday · 18/07/2014 21:08

I should probably mention that Christopher is DP's name, so although lovely we can't use that unfortunately! Joseph and James re also out as they're family.

catsofa - Olivia DOES get called Liv/Livvy so perhaps it wouldn't be too appalling? I will check with SIL and see if she thinks it would be a problem. (Although, they called their gorgeous DD2 Isabella 4 months after our Annabel was born and they're pretty similar names too - the GP's are always getting them mixed up)! Grin

Surname is Shiel, so Samuel Shiel/ Sam Shiel doesn't sound too bad in the way that say, Shaun Shiel would (always reminds me of Shorn Sheep, haha)!

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madmayday · 18/07/2014 21:09

These are fab - thank you everyone! I'm a little more flexible than DP - I bet he could find a problem with every single name! Hmm

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Bowlersarm · 18/07/2014 21:13

Christian nn Kit then!

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OublietteBravo · 18/07/2014 21:22

How about Timothy?

Dan, Bel and Tim has a nice flow.

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