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Pronunciation of Esme?

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dietcoketime69 · 28/04/2014 20:51

Would you say Es - mee or Es - may?

Anyone with an Esme? Do you have to constantly correct people?

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squoosh · 28/04/2014 20:54

I would pronounce it ez-may. I think the may/mee pronunciations are both legitimate.

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Nessalina · 28/04/2014 20:55

I had a pal at school who was Esmé pronounced Ez-mee. Lovely name!
Not sure if it's the accent that instructed the pronunciation?

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squoosh · 28/04/2014 20:56

If the accent is used then the name should only be pronounced ez-may.

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Bunbaker · 28/04/2014 20:57

The only Esme I knew was Ez-mee (South London)

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Clargo55 · 28/04/2014 20:57

I also say Ez-may.

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CrystalSkulls · 28/04/2014 20:57

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Tiredemma · 28/04/2014 20:58

I have an Esme (we pronounce it Ez-Mee)

Lots of people comment on what a beautiful name it is but I am finding that people tend to pronounce it Ez-May, unless corrected.

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Breezy1985 · 28/04/2014 21:13

Ez-may

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Alisvolatpropiis · 28/04/2014 21:20

Es-May. Well more Ez-may.

I did look slightly askance at the first person I heard say Ez-mee but as it was their daughter I thought it best to nod and smile.

I've since discovered it is actually a variant pronunciation but much like Clara pronounced Claire-a not Klara, I find it much less attractive.

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AmysTiara · 28/04/2014 21:47

Ez may

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LaydeeC · 28/04/2014 22:28

Es-mee - definitely

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Appletini · 29/04/2014 01:26

Ez-mee.

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florascotia · 30/04/2014 09:32

Ez-may was the original pronounciation, with an accent on the final e.
It's from an old French version of the verb 'esmer' (ez-may) = 'to esteem'.
And it was originally male.
First used in British Isles for one of Scottish King James VI's favourites, politician Esme Stewart (sorry, can't do accents on this machine).

Now in UK top 100 for girls and rising quite fast, from 202 in 2002 to 65 in 2012.

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SixImpossible · 30/04/2014 09:41

I've known four Esmes. All female, two my parents' generation and two my dcs' generation. Two, one older and one younger, pronounced it Ezmay; two, also one older and one younger, pronounced it Ezmee.

Curiously, the only Esmes I've come across in literature have all been male.

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TheScience · 30/04/2014 09:45

I would say Esmee and prefer that pronunciation. Maybe put the accent in if you definitely want Esmay.

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OddBoots · 30/04/2014 09:46

If I didn't have the chance to ask I would default to Ez-may.

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WowserBowser · 30/04/2014 09:47

I would always pronounce it ez may. Didn't even know you could pronounce it ez mee.

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Waa · 30/04/2014 09:48

I know two. One is Ez-May, the other is Ez-me.

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OddBoots · 30/04/2014 10:01

Actually, thinking about it, if I wan't sure I'd probably mumble the last syllable until I heard other people who know the person better say it.

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splendide · 30/04/2014 17:11

I know one , she's Ez-mee. I actually didn't know that it could be ez-may

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JapaneseMargaret · 02/05/2014 03:46

I'd never even heard of the Es-mee pronunciation until Mumsnet. I suspect that it's only in the UK where people would pronounce it this way.

I can't imagine Renee ever being pronounced Ren-ee.

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Nandocushion · 02/05/2014 05:15

The Es-mee thing is for anglophones. The name is Es-may, with an accent. DD is one, and we don't fuss about either pronunciation, but as we do use the accent it is obviously Es-may.

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PrimalLass · 02/05/2014 06:18

Ez-may. The other way just doesn't roll off the tongue.

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CrackleAndPop · 02/05/2014 06:30

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TimeToThinkOfYourFuture · 02/05/2014 06:33

I teach a child called Esmai- no room for doubt then Grin

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