I'm not particularly precious about other people using 'my' baby names, but I'm curious about what people think, etiquette etc...
I've had a list of preferred baby names (both boys and girls) for years. Have added some and removed others, but it's been fairly static for the top 3-4 of each list for years. I've happily told pregnant friends what my baby names were and never been bothered that they might use them. Two of these friends have had three children in the last two years and two of the children (one boy and one girl) were given first names which were my name #1 for each gender, which I had no problem with...
But I'm now pregnant and wondering what the etiquette is re using the same names... obviously the ones they used had to be my absolute favourites! I feel a bit like I'd be copying them, even though the names have been on my list for donkeys, but I don't want to go for name #2 just on the basis that a friend has used name #1, as name #2 is lovely but is definitely not #1 for me.
Both of these friends are quite close but live miles away (50 and 300 miles) so it's not like we see each other all the time, but we do take breaks together every year so the children would know each other. I'm imagining my child asking me why they're called after my friend's child etc...
I also don't know how my friends would take it. I don't think either of them would be particularly bothered, but I'm a bit worried they might be secretly annoyed. How would you feel? Does it matter? I am pretty sure if the situation were reversed and I'd had children first, that I would feel annoyed at being 'copied'... so I do feel a bit hypocritical
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Orlea · 12/02/2014 15:19
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