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Oh help, I think we're being the fussiest people in the world about girls' names

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WhatDyouCallEr · 26/08/2013 20:12

We're expecting a DD in October and seem to have so many requirements that there are no names left that we can agree on.

I'm English (with some Irish ancestry), DH is German, and we live in Germany. DD will have my (English) surname and I don't want to burden her with two difficult names, so we're looking for a first name that will at least be easily recognisable to German speakers, even if it isn't German.

And then there's the issue of the surname itself (starts with an H and rhymes with Keith) which, especially when it's pronounced with a German accent, makes several sounds (ie, th, s, t, f) problematic in a first name.

We already have a DS called Johannes so none of the -anna names are really an option.

So far Klara and Esther seem to be top of our joint list, but neither of us can quite settle on either... We've also considered Katharina, Natalia, Aila and Rebecca. And I like Maren (MAHren), Ellen/Elena/Nella, Laura and Alma too, but he's not so keen.

Does some inspired person out there have the answer?! (I realise this OP totally outs me, so RL people could you please just pretend you haven't seen it? Thank you!)

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Coconutty · 26/08/2013 20:13

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GwendolineMaryLacey · 26/08/2013 20:14

Elise?

KateCroydon · 26/08/2013 20:16

Isolde? Katarina?

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 26/08/2013 20:16

Greta
Adela - love this
Eleanor
Emma

gettingtogrips · 26/08/2013 20:22

Elisabeth or variant of.

kimblesj · 26/08/2013 20:28

We loved Effy and Etta for a girl

josiejay · 26/08/2013 20:34

Anna?

josiejay · 26/08/2013 20:34

Oh sorry just saw the Johannes bit.

Hmmm.

Phineyj · 26/08/2013 20:38

A friend in a similar situation has gone for Zoe.

bridgetsmum · 26/08/2013 20:38

Ellen

bringonyourwreckingball · 26/08/2013 20:41

Matilda? My English/German couple friends have a Matilda, Tilly or Tilda for short

MichaelBubleBath · 26/08/2013 20:43

Julia
Kerstin/Kirsten
Nastassja
Nadine
Olivia
Simone

Sleepyfergus · 26/08/2013 20:45

Claudia? It's my dd2s name so hopelessly bias!

MadameJosephine · 26/08/2013 20:45

I've always adored the name Liesl

Continuing the sound of music theme how about Louisa, Marta, Brigitta or Gretl? (is it sad that I remember them all - love that film!)

MiconiumHappens · 26/08/2013 20:48

Helen or Hellena
Alice

WhatDyouCallEr · 26/08/2013 20:53

Oh, thanks so much for all your replies so far. They're totally along the right lines!

Coconutty, how is Elea pronounced?
Elise is lovely but could almost rhyme with a very bad German pronunciation of my surname! Maybe some other variant of Elisabeth though, yes.
Am going to read up on Isolde...
I love Greta (and DM is Margaret) but DH doesn't (he doesn't get the granny names thing at all and has vetoed Emma and Matilda for that reason, frustratingly), and it would also give us Hansel and Gretel Grin
Effy with my surname and a Cockney accent (not that I have one) is making me laugh, kimblesj, but I like Etta.
Anna I absolutely love (and DMIL's name) but we scuppered that for ourselves really.
Zoe was also on the list at one point. Maybe we should reconsider. Not sure I can manage the German pronunciation though...

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MalkieFraser · 26/08/2013 20:53

NoraSmile

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WhatDyouCallEr · 26/08/2013 20:55

Sorry, cross-posted with a few people there and have to get to bed, but thanks a lot. Back tomorrow!

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TiredFeet · 26/08/2013 20:57

Elsa
Sarah
Maria

Phineyj · 26/08/2013 21:00

Gosh what is the German pronunciation of Zoe? I was under the impressiom friend had chosen it as we say it the same way -- shows what I know Grin

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Phineyj · 26/08/2013 21:01

Impression!

soontobeslendergirl · 26/08/2013 21:11

Erin? Irish links and really easy to spell/pronounce.

Clara
Carla
Carolina

TravailsInHyperreality · 26/08/2013 21:18

Elsa

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