We're only 7 weeks in so not deciding on names yet but can't help thinking about it - DH was saying it's traditional to use a relatives name for the middle names? However not too keen on the boys family names he suggested as middle names We could use DH's name which is nice but with one of the first names we like, that gives the initials 'JAP' - does that sound a bit weird to you? Does that matter?
Can you have AJP but call him the J? My brothers is HCH and his name is the C. My mum is ALH and goes by the L. There were also a few people at school who had this too, its not too uncommon and you could still use all your preferred names.