Middle name James - first name ?

[redwellybluewelly]

I like;

Reuben
Finley
Tobias

DH likes;
Balthazar
Orion
Thor

HELP!

[Pootles2010]

Sorry I only like Reuben or Finley. My ds has James as middle name - he's Alexander James.

[suzyrut]

If I was having a boy it was going to be Elliot James (it's not).

I hope you don't mind me saying that I prefer your list to your husbands, Tobias is lovely.

[redwellybluewelly]

My husband is not taking the whole naming thing seriously - sigh -

[evamummy]

My favourites are

Reuben James

and

Orion James

[rainbow2000]

I like Finlay ihave Logan James

[bigbluebump]

I like Reuben, Tobias and Orion.

I wouldn't worry too much about 'matching' the middle name as it gets so rarely used. Spend more time finding a first name you both love!

[DonkeysDontRideBicycles]

He may give that impression, but he'll be quick to pounce on a name if he dislikes it. Got long to go?

Of the 3 you gave, I like Tobias or Toby best.

Why not kid him on you're considering Achilles or Troy?

[CarriMarie]

Tobias James sounds best, and also like Toby.

[Rhinopotamus]

I have Isaac James and my nephew is Charlie James.

[Ilovecheeseandlovinglife]

It's so frustrating trying to have a serious conversation with dh about names! Ill suggest something like fern and he's like what about sha'nay'nay instead? Sigh..
Just you choose from your list, all lovely names x

[PogoBob]

Another one here who was considering Elliott James - in the end went with a different middle name (used a family name instead)

[lovechocolates]

i like:

charlie james
Joshua james
Alfie james
Thomas james
Jacob James
Oliver james

[sparetickets]

Peter James (am biased, Ds2!)

[Sasparillo]

I have a Charlie James. Out of your choices I like Tobias (nn Toby) James xx

[amck5700]

David James
Noah James

from your options Finlay - with an "a".

Has your OH considered Kermit? that was my OHs contribution!

[MadAboutTrifle]

I've always liked Nathan and Ethan
Also Keiran
Getting away from the "an" theme...David

[CPtart]

Adam

[redwellybluewelly]

Thank you for the names everyone - Finlay is certainly my favourite, we'll have to see who the stork brings