Thanks everyone. DH has just vetoed Hector so looks like that's the end of that one. I also googled it with our surname & it came up with someone who was done for murder in another country, which has kind of taken the shine off it for me.
Re Ted - Edward is too similar to my name. If this baby is a boy, it would be our 3rd DS so seems strange to associate no 3 so closely with me name wise, also doesn't really go that well with our boys' names. DH doesn't like Theodore so could only really be Ted on it's own. Sigh - think I'm back to drawing board!
We are expecting DC3 shortly, sex is a surprise but I seem to be progressing better with boys names. Interested to know which is generally preferred - Ted (wouldn't be an Edward) or Hector? Also any ideas for middle names would be gratefully received - surname is 2 syllables & begins with K.