Thanks for the replies, it is helpful to hear peoples' opinions. I think my top three are Ethan, Theo and Elijah. Both Travis and Dexter do possibly sound a bit surnamey and both have links to serial killers which is maybe a bit wrong!
I have always loved Ethan and wanted to call my child this but it does seem to be very very popular at the moment. I'm not sure if it's really an issue though as I don't have any in my circle of family/friends but it would be a shame if there were 5 in the same class at school! So I'm feeling a bit undecided plus it would be nice to meet the little one before completely deciding
Ooh great list! Love Travis and Elijah, both high on my list. Ethan is gorgeous too (more popular than your others). Theo is ok but doesn't set my world on fire. Dexter I like, though suspect it'll get heaps more popular after the One Day film!
Congratulations on your DS. I like Elijah and Theo best. DS1 aged 3 is an Elijah and I still love the name as much as when we gave it to him. Ethan is ok, but very common, so it depends if that bothers you. Don't really like Dexter or Travis, too surnamey for me.
Thank you everyone for your thoughts, it's really helpful. Surprised that pretty much no-one likes Travis although maybe it is a bit dated and lots of positives for Elijah which we really like too (although a slight niggling feeling I have is that it sounds a bit 'harsh' how it's pronounced in the UK with a strong 'J' as opposed to a softer 'J' - other than that love it!)