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cakeismysaviour Mon 22-Aug-11 16:07:50

Hello, I have only just joined the site so I hope its ok to just jump straight in with a request for help!

I am 36 weeks pregnant with my first baby and we are really struggling to choose a name, not helped by the fact that we are both very fussy. We have (finally!) compiled a list of mutally approved names but we just can't pick which ones to use! So... I was hoping to use you lot as a sounding board to try and make a choice!

Boys names

Henry (maybe shortened to Harry)

Girls names

Iris (My Grandma's name, and I know she would be very touched if we used it.)

We don't really mind if a name is very popular, as long as we love it. If you can think of any other names we may like feel free to let me know!

belgo Mon 22-Aug-11 16:10:01

Oliver is one of the most popular boys names. Apart from that, all the names are lovely. Elspeth is unusual but very pretty.

cakeismysaviour Mon 22-Aug-11 16:15:08

Thanks for replying! I believe Oliver is the number one boys name? I don't mind that, although it probably would be a little annoying if there were a ridiculous number of Oliver's in his class at school. When I was at school there were five girls called Emma and four boys called James in my class!

CurwySwide Mon 22-Aug-11 16:15:52

They are all lovely!

Particularly like George, Henry and Sebastian for boys, and Elspeth and Iris for girls - they are both quite unusual and very pretty indeed.

andthisisme Mon 22-Aug-11 16:17:29

I like all the names you have listed, but some of them are quite common at the moment. I have a George smile

How many syllables in your surname? I always think shorter names sound better with long surnames and vice versa. Do you have middle names picked or will they be off the list too?

andthisisme Mon 22-Aug-11 16:18:43

Sorry, meant to say you might not be bothered by popular names! I wasn't when we chose our sons name it was number 10 I think.

cakeismysaviour Mon 22-Aug-11 16:32:36

Thank you guys!

The baby's surname (we are not married yet) will begin with B and have two syllables. The middle names will also be off the list, sorry I should have said that originally!

cookielove Mon 22-Aug-11 16:39:03

Sebastian - like
William - like also like nick name Will
Edward - like the nickname but not Edward
Henry - like

Freya - like
Elspeth - like
Iris - love
Ava - love
Sophia - like

andthisisme Mon 22-Aug-11 17:03:46

ah two syllable surname means both short and long names are okay. Doesn't narrow the field much though.
Maybe short name -long name -surname would be good?
George Sebastian B...
I also like

Henry George
William Henry
Edward Thomas (I know a little Eddie, he's ace!)

From your girls list I think Clara Rose would be a lovely name although again Rose is a very popular middle name at the moment.
Not keen on Ava or Sophia, Elspeth makes me think of that sex starved woman in 3 men and a baby (sorry). Having said that I think if you use Iris as a middle name it needs a longer first name to balance it IYKWIM?

Sophia Iris B.... actually is very nice!

Both my Dcs have family names as middle names, I think it's a really nice thing to do smile

wigglesrock Mon 22-Aug-11 17:19:21

They are all lovely grin, sorry not much help. Dd1 has one of the names from your list and all 3 dds have family names as middle names. Its a nice thing to do and they are never used grin

minipie Mon 22-Aug-11 18:07:39

From your boys' names, my favourites are (in order):

Thomas (Tom)
William (Will)

I like Sebastian but not its inevitable nn Seb. Never been a fan of George or Oliver (which puts me in the minority smile)

From your girls' names, my favourites are:


I do like Ava and Rose but am a bit put off by how ubiquitous they are at the moment! Willow is a bit "Buffy the Vampire Slayer" for me, and I find Elspeth a bit clunky.

Bartimaeus Mon 22-Aug-11 18:12:42

Congratulations on your pregnancy smile

I'm 34 weeks with DC1 and choosing names is hard!

We did it by compiling a long-list (like yours) then comparing each name with each and deciding we preferred x to y, even though we both like y.

We've got it down to just two names (we know it's a boy) and we will either choose between now and the birth or choose between the two on the actual day.

To get the names down I repeated them several times out loud with our surname, then tried to imagine calling a baby, a toddler, a young boy, a teenager and a man by those names. Really helped me realise which names I just like and which names I can stand to say many times a day for the next 50 years!!!!

cakeismysaviour Mon 22-Aug-11 20:20:29

I am so glad that I posted, you lot have thought of all the stuff that we hadn't thought of! I am pretty sure that I will use Iris as a middle name for a girl now, but otherwise we still have some tough choices to make. As Bartimaeus said, we want a name that will suit our child throughout his/her life, starting to wonder whether Willow fits into that catagory....?

andthisisme Mon 22-Aug-11 21:13:17

What I liked to do was say the full name aloud, putting "Doctor" and then "Judge" at the front and see how it sounds blush

LaTristesse Mon 22-Aug-11 21:19:35

I like Henry and Iris best from your lists. You have lots of lovely names there, congratulations. smile

strawberrypenguin Mon 22-Aug-11 21:24:42

Love Elspeth from your girls names and your boys names are all great classics don't think you can really go wrong with any of them

CristinaTheAstonishing Mon 22-Aug-11 21:26:37

I like all your boys' names. Not so keen on any of the girls'.

YouDoTheMath Mon 22-Aug-11 21:38:00

I like the last three on both your lists.

Incidentally, DP and I did this with our DD before she was born. We ended up with a list of seven girls' names. Then, we each went through the list and crossed out our least favourite name, until we were left with the final 3.

We then chose her name out of those 3 at birth.

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