I really need some help and support and due to the Christmas period there is little professional support out there so I’ve turned to the internet. Had my 20 week scan the week before christmas - everything fine up until then. Was told at the scan that baby had an exomphalos and this could mean further complications such as chromosomes problems. We were then told to just go home and wait to see if a specialist would see us. They phoned the next big hospital that has a FMU but because it’s Christmas they wouldn’t accept us. Then asked if we would travel to a hospital that would. I said yes we would go anywhere. Finally got a call to say a hospital would accept us on 27th December which we said yes to. We then spent a week of hell waiting to see this specialist. Christmas completely ruined. I’ve just been in bed and locked myself away from the world. I can’t see anyone. I’m visibly pregnant (22w now) and don’t want to see people.
Went to the appointment Thursday for the dr to confirm exomphalos and also concerned about the amount of fluid around the neck. It’s now over 7mm. This has never been mentioned before. All pointing to chromosomes issues. We then opted for the amniocentesis test which he just did right there and then. We then were told to go home and wait for results. So it’s saturday now and we still have no idea. I can’t get out of bed as I’m so distraught. I can’t believe we have got this far and in this situation. I can feel baby moving and it’s just heartbreaking to think it might not survive. They said we might have the results on Monday (new years eve). What a wonderful way to start 2019. We have already had the discussions and conversations about what we will do if the results are the worst. I just feel so alone and so helpless. Everyone knows I’m pregnant and I’m scared of the TFMR. Any advice or similar stories would help.
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EAnne · 29/12/2018 18:27
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