Hi everyone, I'm new to this and just seeking some support. I'm 21 weeks pregnant with my 1st baby, she is much wanted having been through fertility treatment and because we have previously had a miscarriage at 8 weeks. The 20 week US discovered the ventricles of our little girls brain were measuring too high and after an intense week of tests we have discovered our little one had Down syndrome. This has come as a massive shock as I am 29 and never really considered this as a possibility. I am lucky to have an incredibly supportive and upbeat partner and we are continuing with the pregnancy and have been very well supported at the hospital. I have had a fairly negative reaction from a minority of family members and think that really hasn't helped my mindset, I feel so down and so frightened for us and our baby. I feel so guilty for the doubts i am having and cant seem to stop feeling sorry for myself and jealous of others with their 'normal' children. Would love to hear from anyone who has children with Down syndrome and their experiences. I just don't know how I can come to terms with this and regain my previous excitement for this baby.
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