Last night the private consultant phoned me to report my 10 wk harmony test was 95% +ve for T21. This was an unplanned pregnancy child no 3. We have 2 healthy boys age 5 and 2. I am 39 1/2 years old.
This situation really sucks! We can't take any action/ make appts as its the weekend. We need to access copy of results from private secretary on Monday then convey a copy to our NHS provider to facilitate a consultation and further tests - nuchal and poss CVS. We don't have a named consultant on NHS only number for midwife clinic so not sure how this will all run?
We are certain wedon't want to parent a child with T21. There are many reasons why and I'm not looking for advice or support to influence that decision.
I'm just wondering if anyone has experienced this situation? What other tests were you offered/ did you have?
Did you have a termination? Was it surgical? Or medical?
I'm sorry if I sound blunt and overly pragmatic! I don't wish to offend any readers who themselves have a child with DS or know someone with DS who they are close to. I just want to survive this ordeal for sake of my husband and children.
This has been a difficult pregnancy to date. Intense nausea and fatigue. The worst thing is I still feel so sick and my bump is steadily growing!
If this doesn't work out we won't be having any more children. I so want to move forward and celebrate what we have already been blessed with as we are really so fortunate.
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Blackcherrysundae · 12/03/2016 10:30
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