I have 3 DS aged 12, 5, and 4 and have just found out today that I am pregnant and that it is twins. I split with the youngest twos Dad 4 months ago after 8 years and had rebound 1 night stand resulting in this pregnancy. I really don't know what to do. Any advice is better than sitting here lost xx
I can't advise you what to do- only you can make the choice that is right for you and your other children. Do you have any support in real life? Would your ex support you? I am so sorry things are difficult for you, I am useless at helping in situations like this, just wanted to answer you as you sound so upset.
thankyou so much for replying. When it comes to advice I am one of those "I can see both sides" people which is why I am struggling with this decision. My parents are not supportive of my situation they do not know of current pregnancy yet. Things are terrible betwen my ex and I just now he would be of no help at all. I had thought a termination would be best for me until I found out it was twins. I have no idea why this has changed things I feel so confused xx sorry to vent xx
Are you in contact with your last partner? How pregnant are you? Do you have a good GP that you can get an appointment with and see if you can see a counsellor quickly?
What a hard place to be in, could you really cope with five children? So many questions, I know what I would do, but I am not you. You have only found out today, give yourself a couple of days to think this over.
I have just tried to send you a message but not sure if it has gone or if your settings are accepting pm's. Hopefully it has gone through, I am off to bed now but will check in morning and re-send if you didn't receive it.