Hi sorry for the long post,
Me and my partner have been together for over 6 years now, neither of us wanted kids. Earlier this year I caught unplanned. I was never convinced I wanted a baby but not enough to have an abortion and everyone was so supportive saying my feelings would change. My feelings for not wanting a baby have only grown stronger the further alone I have got, I’m not at all excited and I can’t see a baby in my future. My partner feels the same if not stronger and what’s me to consider abortion or adoption because none of us really want this child however my problem is because I’m 17 weeks my whole family know and are excited and buying things, we know the gender and to make such a big decision I have to be 100% sure and I can’t be. It is my first pregnancy and I’m so scared of the risks or that I’ll regret my decision it’s putting me in between a rock and a hard place. As the only decision my partner can make he has decided that if I continue with the pregnancy then he will play no part, not even meet the baby when it’s born.
I feel stuck and trapped and I don’t know what to do.
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Poppyrose12 · 07/08/2019 22:02
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