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is it pnd? or just tired

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Mummywithlove Thu 15-Jan-15 20:25:58

i have a 2 1/2 year old boy and hes wonderful couldnt ask for a better son, i have a 19month old daughter and she was born at 28 weeks and i have NO bond with her, and you all are probably going to say im evil but i dont feel the same about her as i do my son, she is really stressful and sometimes i cant stand being in the same room as her, ive just had a baby on the 12th dec and again i couldnt as for a better baby, its just my daughter, shes started to really do my head in cuz she pulls her OWN hair, she bites her OWN finger's, she head butts thing, she bites her elder brother she drops toys on her elder brothers head,,she snaches her baby brothers bottle off him she tried tipping him out of his moses basket, she will make herself sick by putting fluff or that much food into her mouth, she will just cry for no reason, she will cry until shes sick , if no1 gives her attention she will cry bite smack pull pinch herself until someone gives in, i love the boys sooo much but her not so much, i havent been to see a doctor because i havent got tje confidence to tell someone face to face, due to my past of "no ones interested " (parents),.... i have no family as they all have caused me so much grief and told lies about me and my family, i have no close friends i can talk too, basically i dont trust anyone, and i havent got the confidence in myself to talk face to face with anyone, including my husband , i cant do with anymore rejection and being laughed at, and being told there not bothered, have i got pnd or "normal " depression. thank u all for reading x

Mummywithlove Thu 15-Jan-15 20:38:07

another thing im only 20, and before u say stop having kids, i am not having any more, implant has been booked,,
i live in a one bed flat which is tiny and we are always stressed out cuz were all under each others feet, we are due to move in a few weeks time,, i cant wait to have some space and ME time,

Cookingtea123 Fri 16-Jan-15 17:36:10

I think you should speak to your HV. It sounds like your daughter may need specialist help. Is she still under care of neonates? It could well be undiagnosed pnd. Maybe write down what you want to say and let HV read it. Counselling could also help

Mummywithlove Fri 16-Jan-15 20:42:05

thank u cooktea for ur reply, my daughter is under several consultants and they said her behavior is for attention and when stressed, i have a post natal appointment in the 23rd and i really want to tell someone, but im to afraid that they will think i cant cope looking after my babies and social services would get involved, but i do think i have some kind of depression, x

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